Don't get carried away by showing off: "Marry With What You Have And Grow Your Family'

Because of social media, suddenly it is beginning to look like it's a taboo to marry a man who doesn't have a car or cars, fat bank account, vacation abroad, and other such luxuries.

Not that these things are bad but they should never be a yardstick for marriage, a journey that would define your lifelong existence on earth before your die.

This guy, Jude, lost the love of his life to another man because while in his twenties, he had his mind totally set on making big money first. 

He's over 30 now, Big Money is yet to come. He's finding it hard to find true love, he sees his mates daily playing with their 2, 3 kids while he has none and Jude says that's his greatest regret.

He's now sharing his experience for others to learn...

Life can be beautiful, build it and stop wishing.