He tells you that he admires your keeping it real-especially with
the way you puff the smokes with the boys (he and his friends)
and guzzle down everybody bottle of alcohol that is passed round
–almost like you can hit the bottle better than the boys. All these
(plus your gymnastics 'know how' on bed) are the reasons he is
absolutely crazy about your person…so he tells you!
Yet, when it was time for him to pick a wife…he went for a lady
that doesn't even touch the bottle and can't stand the smoke-let
alone touching it. He went for a lady that he's had to quit
smoking to even get her attention…a lady who doesn't have to
wear waywardness as a label to net a husband.
Quit beefing o. He never told you that his admiration of your
free-ness (of attitude) made him consider you a wife material for
one day. Your ways probably satiate his fantasy (besides he has
nothing to lose by tolerating you and chopping the other one that
you are good at throwing in too) but when he came back to
reality…he made his decision. And since you could so carry
yourself as one of the boys-tell me why he should marry his
fellow man?
If all your efforts were for him to see that you can make a good
'marital companion'. I suggest you retrace your steps and learn
(instead) those traits that make a lady a wife material –incase a
husband material comes your way but if you have no qualms with
your ways-then carry on (and do not mind Oby and her noise).
The beauty of life is that everyone has the tendency to come
across someone who may have no qualms tolerating his/her warts
and all…someone who will take you home for the very reasons
that another dumped you!
In their wandering days (when they have nothing to lose)…a lot
of men can romance a wild girl but when reality beckons-they
will not touch her with a ten foot pole. They know who to take
home to Mama. values become top in their priority list. That is
also when you will realize that all that his liberal ways is a façade
of sorts because he really does not have anything to lose…at least
not yet. And if you dare make the mistake of trapping him with
pregnancy…you might as well kiss any chances of 'happiness' in
that union good bye-that is, if he doesn't even walk right over you
to the one he feels-is his dream woman.
Why he Choose The Village Girl Over You: - Must Read
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Posted on Wednesday, April 08, 2015
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