wonder it becomes very confusing for a
normal guy to find out, if a girl is
interested or otherwise. However there
are also cases when we become victims
of ignorance where we fail to notice
basic signs that lie in front of our eyes.
It is always better to pick these signs,
before she assumes you to be this
desperate psycho trying every chance to
gain her attention.
Here are 10 signs that she is not that
into you...
1. She often doesn't bother to return
your calls:
You could assume that probably she's
been so busy with work that she didn't
get even two minutes to spare or that
she obviously must have lost her phone
or you could just come face-to-face with
reality that, she's just not that into you.
2. She flirts with boys all the time:
When a girl likes you more than a
friend, there can be no excuse why
would she do this. So instead of making
yourself believe that she's just trying to
make you jealous, why don't you just
come close to the truth? And the
obvious truth here is, the girl is not that
into you.
3. She shuns you away like a fly:
Females always respect the one whom
they are interested in. It is in their
DNA. There can be no other explanation
for belittling you, often forgetting
promises made to you and choosing
everything possible over you. So if a girl
acts like she really doesn't give a damn,
probably she really doesn't give a
damn.
4. She runs away from commitment
with you:
When you try to talk about your future
together, she changes the topic. It is
time to face the fact. She does this
because she doesn't want to have a
future with you and she may be flirting
around with you.
5. She doesn't return your advances:
Think about how she reacts when you
ask her for a date. Does she just change
the topic or come up with silly excuses?
If at all she agrees to come out with
you, does she always try to bring
someone along? Here the huge
possibility is that she doesn't want to be
anything more than friends with you.
She has already made it pretty evident.
It is just you, who is delaying to pick the
signs.
6. She is very amused by your jokes:
If a girl finds you funny, half of the job
of getting her attracted to you is done.
However if she just won't laugh at your
jokes, if she rolls her eyes at your witty
comments and sulks at your funny one-
liners, she isn't that into you.
7. She ignores you often:
You catch a glimpse of her on the
street. You excitedly wave in her
direction. But she walks away as if she
never saw you. When you finally
manage to reach her and ask her why
she didn't say hi to you, she acts all
innocent saying that she didn't notice
you. Well obviously she didn't notice
you because she was trying hard not to!
8. She is often quiet around you:
Women love to talk. So once that
mouthpiece goes into silent mode, it is
time to worry. You often notice her not
being herself around you and often not
telling you even basic important things
about her day. You need not look
further my brother, the big obvious
truth staring at you in the face is that
she is not that into you.
9. She often makes plans minus you:
All girls like their space. But if most of
her big plans don't include you, this is a
sign of trouble in paradise. It is so
obvious that she is just trying to get
away from you and doesn't know how
to tell it to you.
10. Nice Comments:
You write nice Facebook posts or rather
made a nice comment on a blog, she
sees it and either likes your comment
or reply you nicely, that's it! That
doesn't mean she likes you and it's not
a sign that she is into you.
11. She sends out signs that she is
uncomfortable:
If you take a step towards her, she jolts
backwards. This is a clear indication that
she feels uncomfortable around you. Do
you seriously need any more signs?
Sometimes the signs are not that hard
to pick. It is just that you are so blinded
in love that you just won't notice. All
you got to do is open your eyes to
notice the very much visible truth-she's
not that into you!
By Greg Ighodaro
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